This post was the most difficult to write – it took me far longer than expected. Throughout our stay in Cambodia we were surprised on a daily basis and deeply shocked a few times. Ultimately, if you ever end up in SE Asia, travelling to Cambodia is a no-brainer. Just come prepared…. please read until the end…

The temples you see around Siem Reap are breathtaking. It is beyond belief that some of them were built over 1,000 years ago. The detailing, the astrological layouts and the symbolism around are everywhere you look. And the stories… we were never properly introduced to Hindu or Buddhism cultures and their mythology. Listening to our guide (this time we opted in for a couple of days of private tours) describing how the world was created and who all the different gods were was an eye opening experience. We will never become experts (and might have gotten this or that wrong), but you’ll find some of our favourite ones along with the photos (just click through the photos for descriptions).

We tried to embrace the tradition and got a reading from a monk at one of the temples (for a $1 of course). We got blessed with holy water (the water is “holy” as in never saw sunlight = from a well) and were supposed to pick a single page from the ancient bible. We capitulated on the fifth try… apparently all of them were just bad news. From what we could understand, one of the stories was about a man who killed his pig and took to the market to sell – and no one came to buy… And another one about a mother, who left her baby at home and went off to find food for the family. She managed to return just in time to rescue her child from a blazing fire… This one was particularly troubling, as throughout Vietnam and Cambodia I was attending telephone and WhatsApp interviews for a job back home…. Needless to say, I got the job, so let’s not be prejudicial and just wait and see what the future brings!

While in Angkor we had an (almost) close encounter with celebrities. Not only have we visited the overgrown temple from The Tomb Raider (btw, look how bad the trailer is!), but we missed Angelina Jolie by an hour! She was just about to arrive for screening of her new movie First They Killed My Father, in the Angkor Wat ruins. The screening was attended by the Cambodian royal family, who we passed on the airport the following day!

One thing they do not tell you about Cambodia is how expensive it is. The local currency (Riel) is very weak (and the notes are literally falling apart as you hold them), which means that everything is priced in USD… and the prices are at London level. Coming from unbelievably cheap and true Vietnam, where you could get a feast of local specialties for £5, to a place which just felt like one giant tourist trap, three levels of prices (tourist, expat and local) and aspiring restaurants serving complicated dishes at astronomical prices. In the 5 days we travelled through Cambodia we spent more on food than in a week in New York. Ridiculous. And all this is surrounded by devastating poverty. A shocking experience.

And as we travelled into Phnom Penh it got even worse. The city itself is just like all other capitals in this part of the world – very big, dirty but rapidly developing and with an overwhelming feeling you are not safe or welcome here. This is contrasted by gold and architecturally striking temples and palaces. We stayed in a hotel in centre of town where the room we got presented with, while on 10th floor had no windows and no one could understand why I was complaining. The whole thing just didn’t feel right.

What really struck us during this visit was how failed Polish educational system is. History lessons start with ancient Greece and by the time you get to XX century you’ve run out of time… This way we were never taught about anything that happened in the world after Second World War. It might have been our ignorance, but I vaguely remember the trials of Pol Pot a few years ago but never truly knew what it was all about. Well, until spending a few days in Phnom Penh and visiting one the prisons (S21). If there is a way to run a history lesson this is it… I had enough and was ready to leave after 15 min. I will never be a historian, so forgive my simplification, but what happened in Cambodia in 1970s just doesn’t seem to get out of my mind.

After years of occupation and devastating civil wars the country finally got liberated in 1975. Within 3 hours after the celebratory welcoming of Khmer Rouge army on the streets on Phnom Penh people got evicted from large cities into the countryside. They got minutes to pack – they were told the army needs to clear the towns from explosives (and told that more American bombings were imminent) and they will be back in no time. Needless to say, it never happened. This moment became the Year Zero, the beginning of the new world. Khmer Rouge carried out a radical program that included isolating the country from all foreign influences, closing schools, hospitals, and factories, abolishing banking, finance, and currency, outlawing all religions, confiscating all private property. It was the beginning of implementation of their master-plan for making Cambodia great again. The idea was to make it into an agricultural utopia – people (regardless of status, education and knowledge) were forced to work on the rice fields in labour camps to try to meet the expected quota from each hectare. How would you feel if someone has done this to you – would you even know how to go about it? But that was only part of the story. More people means higher costs. Khmer Rouge estimated they needed only 2m people to achieve their goal. This meant the remaining population of the country was obsolete. They had to go following the party’s motto To keep you is no benefit. To destroy you is no loss.

We both spent a couple of hours in S21, one of the prisons used during that time (there were 106 throughout the country). People were brought there without any specific reason – their name just “came up”. Then the true bureaucracy of death began. Detailed records for each prisoner were created, photos taken, ID numbers assigned. Then they were tortured (I will spare you the details) until they admitted their involvement with KGB, CIA or other institution they never even heard of. Sometimes this took days, sometimes months. And some of them didn’t make it through the torture – and this became the proof that the staff at the facility were involved. And in a split second from an oppressor they themselves became prisoners… Once the confession was signed the prisoners were transported to Killing Fields – mass graves just outside of town, where they were bashed with rods until they died. Bullets were too expensive.  Only 7 people survived out of 14,000 to 20,000 that were brought to S21 for processing, torture and ultimately death either there or in one of the Killings Fields. We just couldn’t face going to see this as well….

Two points to add, to make it all clearer…

This happened only 40 years ago, quite far away from the western civilisation, just after American failed attempts in Vietnam. It took 4 years. No one wanted to get involved. Pol Pot and Khmer Rouge managed to exterminate 25% of the population of their own country and no one seems to have said a thing. The party itself got only disbanded in late 1990’s and the formal trials started in 2007.

The prison I talked about before – I missed out one crucial fact. It wasn’t a prison. It was a high school. Just like the one I went to as a teenager. But with classrooms converted into hastily built cells and schools equipment used as torture devices. With subjects of the last lesson still written on blackboards in each of the torture rooms. The feeling when you walk around is one of the most overwhelming I have ever felt. The whole thing is just beyond belief…

Was it worth it – yes, without a doubt. Would I do it again – again, no question about it. But just be aware, the history is everywhere around you. And it’s quite overwhelming. Let’s make sure it doesn’t repeat itself…